Sales Training Success Tip - Take Responsibility for Your Results
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Sales Training Success Tip - Take Responsibility for Your Results
Copyright 2005 Ike Krieger
You've has a tough day, maybe even a tough month. I walk up
to you and utter these words, "You are responsible for your
results."
What do you think about that?
When you hear me say that you're totally responsible for
the results you produce in your business---you might jump
to a conclusion. You may even think that I'm suggesting
that you should take the blame for your results.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
By taking responsibility for your results and your
outcomes--- you grant yourself great power.
If you acknowledge that you're truly responsible for the
way your projects end ---good or bad--- you give yourself
great power. You can use this newly discovered power to
make your projects end up another, possibly more desirable
way.
Before I go on, let's agree on a few things.
The first agreement: The results you produce are determined
by your choices and your actions.
Second agreement: A lot of people look upon failure as a
bad thing.
What if there was an optional way, a more productive way to
view a failure?
I believe that failure isn't really as much about failing
as you might believe.
I'd like you to think of failure as a success. You don’t
fail.
You are successful at reaching an outcome 100% of the time.
Here's a question that will help shift way from the more
traditional mindset.
Is the result you produced the result you had intended to
produce, or was the result unplanned?
I want you to start looking at failure in a new light. I
want you to start thinking of failure in a different way. I
want you to think of failure as a process that generates
unplanned results.
Using that definition you can begin to view your results as
a stepping stone to greater success.
This shift in thinking will provide you with the chance to
change the choices and/or the actions that are producing
your unplanned results without making yourself feel like
you've been doing something wrong.
Here is a story I use to illustrate the point.
The genius inventor, Thomas Edison, had performed more than
thousand, unsuccessful experiments while on his mission to
create the electric light bulb.
Edison was asked, “How were you able to continue with your
experiments after encountering so many failures?”
Edison replied, “I did not look at the unsuccessful
attempts as failures, but rather as a thousand ways not to
make a light bulb.“
He took responsibility for each outcome, made adjustments
and continued on to success.
For most people, the ability to take responsibility for
unplanned outcomes and adjust accordingly calls for a new
“skill set”. You have to develop and exercise the “skill
muscle” called responsibility.
Focus on developing your “skill muscles”.
One way to develop these “skill muscles” is to pattern your
results oriented behaviors after the model for Effective
Communication.
Effective communicators know their outcome and state it in
the positive. In other words they focus on what they want
versus what they don’t want.
Effective communicators have the awareness to know whether
they are moving away from or towards that desired outcome.
Effective communicators have a flexibility of choice and
action that allows them to make a course correction,
especially if what they were doing was producing unplanned
results.
As your “skill muscles” grow stronger your ability to
achieve your desired outcomes more easily and more often
will emerge. Your ability to communicate effectively with
yourself and with others will grow proportionately.
Be ready and willing to ask yourself, “For what parts of
the project am I willing to take responsibility?”
In addition, I suggest that you stop taking things as
seriously as you have been.
That is not meant to imply that what you’re up to is not
serious. It’s just that life is serious enough without
making it more so.
Remember that life is an adventure over which you have
little control.
You make choices, you take action and you play the game the
best you can.
This is an enlightened way to success. Being enlightened is
the best mindset to have when you play the game.
So--- keep in mind that the greatest pathway to
enlightenment is to--- Lighten up.
Here's the Success Tip--- Play the game, take
responsibility and lighten up.
"Angels fly because they take themselves lightly."
-G.K.Chesterson
About the Author:
Ike Krieger is a business mentor, author and speaker. Ike
can help you get more clients, more referrals and more
sales, and do it with dignity. His Question-Based Marketing
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