Home Business Burnout: What To Do When Doubt Creeps In
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Home Business Burnout: What To Do When Doubt Creeps In
Copyright 2006 Angie Hewerdine
We've all been there before. Your website isn't pulling in
any hits and your advertising campaign is a bust. The leads
you've been contacting either don't want what you have or
couldn't handle it if they wanted to. Your trying like mad
to make something for yourself to avoid having to go back
to a dreaded J.O.B. but it seems like all of your efforts
are in vain. In the beginning, you were psyched, motivated
and driven to succeed in a business where 99% of people
fail. You had confidence in yourself. You were willing to
do whatever it took to reach your goals and make it to the
top. So what happened?
Well, somewhere down the line, you dropped the ball. No, it
has nothing to do with what kind of leads you are using, or
your advertising budget. You dropped the ball when you
invited a very unwelcome guest into your home business
enterprise...your own doubting ego. Ego is a vicious
fighter. It must be right at all costs. It lives and
breathes to remain unscathed. As soon as you step out of
your comfort zone and take a risk, your ego stands up at
attention and tries to talk some sense into you. "There are
so many people who don't make it in this business...who am
I kidding?" "Maybe I should just cut my losses and get out
now. At least I tried."
When you fall for these tricks, ego rests easy, knowing
that it's got you by the throat and you'll be hard pressed
to take such risks again. Safety. Security. The familiar.
These are what keeps ego alive. The problem with that is
that life is always changing. Our existence from moment to
moment is changing. Our bodies completely
regenerate...every single cell of our body is totally
recreated within the course of two years. But, in spite of
the fact that change is the only constant, ego thinks it
can get by without it.
It's easy to blame the economy, the advertising, or just
'bad luck' as the reason why most home businesses fail. But
the truth is more difficult to accept. The truth is that we
are slaves to our ego. We are the destroyers, through
listening to that niggling voice in our head and giving our
power over to it. We cannot stand the thought of failure or
being laughed at even if we are the only ones doing the
laughing.
When you begin to realize the tight grip your ego has over
every aspect of your being, you see that the road ahead is
indeed a long one. But there's hope! You can begin to quiet
the voice of the ego. It takes dedication...not just to
your website and your advertising. It takes dedication to
yourself...the real you that's been sacrificed at the mercy
of ego. The real you that knows that anything is possible
and that you deserve to succeed.
The very best way to take control of your ego is to adopt
the habit of daily meditation. As you come to know
stillness each day, little by little you can chip away at
that annoying ego, revealing in the space between your
thoughts; the essence of who you truly are. Know this part
of yourself, and you will be more able to keep ego at bay.
Visualize your goals as if they have already happened.
We create our reality by the thoughts that we think in each
moment. Refuse to allow the negativity and doubt to creep
in. When you recognize yourself having a doubting thought,
do not give it one more millisecond in your head. Replace
it with a positive affirmation or a powerful image of
yourself being as successful as you want to be.
Get to know yourself in your head as you aspire to be, not
as you 'think' you are. Assume success with every fiber of
your being. Intend to be successful. Give thanks for your
success, in advance and often. You will see things begin to
go your way. You will see the success that you envision
begin to manifest in your external life. Make each thought
a positive and valuable thought. Hold lofty goals and
assume that they are being made manifest, no matter what
ego tells you is 'reality'. We create our own reality, with
or without ego's input.
Running a home based business takes more than organization,
time management and good luck. It takes faith and a
consistent desire to succeed. Throw ego out the window and
create success for yourself one thought at a time.
About the Author:
Angie Hewerdine is a successful home business owner and
Wealth Creation Advisor with a driving passion for helping
others change their lives. She has assisted many people in
realizing and attaining their personal and financial
objectives.
To learn more call 1-800-491-4758 or visit
www.TheTimeForChange.com
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